From Lovers to Friends?? Could it ever happen??

entry 13...

In this world there may be lots of relationships going on but there is also

in many relationships that don't end in marriage (well actually even then),

there usually is a time when you have to say "hasta la vista baby."

The two of you have shared memories together that when you look back upon,

you will either laugh or cry together.

But watever that memory might be,

once a relationship ends, it's time to say

"THANKS" or "NO THANKS" for everything that has been done and move on in life.
BUT somewhere along the line...

there's always the "LET'S REMAIN AS FRIENDS" compromise to many breakups.

It's the much gentler way of saying,

"hey, you're not that bad. it's not you. it's me. but look, i still want to be friends with you." *smile*

The question that me n my freinds think about...
can you be good friends with your ex???
okie. let's face it.

Whenever there's a breakup, it's usually never mutual.

Usually one person is the one that causes or initiates the breakup and is labeled

"heartbreaker",

while the other person is left hurting and dwelling on the breakup for weeks on end.

Even the heartbreaker could hurt too,

But usually the one who initiated the breakup moves on faster than the one who didn't.
The conclusion is that

" NO, it's very rare for many people to become truly good friends with their ex's. "

However, i have read in books where a boyfriend and his ex have become best friends instead. whoa! yes! it's true! it can be done.

But, when your ex is your best friend

and you tell your best friend things about your current relationship,

hmms... you could land yourself in a heap of mess...

SO WHY BORDERING YOURSELF INTO SO MUCH IN RELATIONSHIPS??

MAYBE IT'S FINE FOR CERTAIN PEOPLE...

BUT JUST NOT TAKE IT TO SERIOUSLY IN RELATIONSHIPS....

TO NOT BRING YOURSELF INTO TROUBLES...

CAN YOU BE GOOD FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX???
you guys tell me...

TAKE CARE.. GOD bLESS

cHEERs>>> *CHRIS*